It Doesn’t Matter
During a long ago perilous period of war, a brave honorable warrior led his troops into battle to preserve the freedoms of his country. Because of the long duration of the war, his army was suffering for want of food and supplies.
The battles had been fierce. Supplies from his government were not getting to him and his men.
Upset and discouraged, the warrior sent a letter to the government accusing it of thoughtlessness, slothfulness and neglect.
The governor who received the letter could have easily taken offense and resented the accusations directed at him. Instead, he responded compassionately and described a rebellion against the government which prevented supplies from getting to the warrior and his army.
The governor did not take joy in the afflictions of his warrior friend and was greatly grieved for him and his troops. He wrote that he was not angry but did rejoice in the “greatness” of his warrior friend’s heart. Even though he had been censured, he wrote,”it doesn’t matter.”
Responding to the weaknesses, the inexperience or the offensive actions of others can reflect our maturity in dealing with others.
What should a response be when someone doesn’t show up for a meeting, a telephone call or appointment? What should the response be to the offensive actions of others?
Choose to not be offended or upset and say as did the governor, “it doesn’t matter.”
